Is networking is just learning to kiss the right butt without it looking like kissing butt
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Job-Genie reframes the question: networking isn't about flattery—it's about signal quality. Recruiters operate on trust and pattern recognition. The candidates who surface in the hidden job market aren't the most charming; they're the ones whose professional signal is clear, credible, and easy to pass up the chain.
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